My Real Life

March 4, 2011

Five Question Friday

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1. Have you ever forgotten your child in a store or at school?
No.
In fact, it’s a huge fear of mine to lose track of a child, and so I’m like a freaking hawk when we go out.
I have nightmares about my children getting lost, and they fuel my anxiety when we’re out.
So, again, no.
2. Where did you go on your very first date? (Like…first first, not first with your spouse or current significant other!)
Um…I’m not really sure.
I guess if you truly mean first first, it would have been to meet some boy at the baseball field and sit together during a Little League game.  The field was right down the street from me, and my friend, Gail, and I would go down and sit in the stands and watch the games.  A few times we met a boy or two and sat with them in 6th or 7th grade.
If you mean with an actual boyfriend, again, I’m not sure, but I guess I’d have to say at that same park, I met up with a boy I was dating in 7th grade at the swings.  It was all quite innocent, but I’ve always remembered it as my “first date.”
3. What’s your “silly” fear? (We’re not talking water and heights.)
First of all, let’s be clear…
I don’t think it’s silly AT ALL.
However, many do.
I’m terrified of clowns and porcelain dolls.
And, I don’t want to talk about it.
4. Confrontation: do you cause it, deal with is as it comes, or run far far away?
I cause it.
I don’t like to let anything simmer.
Why be angry when you can work through it?
So, if there are upset feelings, I deal with them head on.
Makes those close to me uncomfortable, at times, but I’m all about confrontation.
Get it out in the open, deal with it, and move on.

5. Wood floors or carpet?
Wood floors.
Carpet is pretty, but achoo!

March 2, 2011

Superman

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I’ve got this monkey, you see.

This particular monkey is very into super heroes.

In fact, you might say, he’s obsessed.

But, more than the super heroes themselves, he has a complete infatuation with his Superman jammies.

If you were to stop by my house at any time of the day that he isn’t in school, this is who you’d find.

Seriously.

As soon as he walks in the door, he goes to his room and puts on his Superman jammies.

Which means, of course, that I’m washing them every other day.

Some days, we wind up having a bath at 4 pm because it’s the longest I can hold him off in putting on those jammies.

Other days, the jammies are on before I’ve even taken off my coat.

So, if you happen to run into this guy, feel free to actually call him Superman.

Because, I have a sneaking suspicion that once he is old enough to legally change his name…

Superman it is.

March 1, 2011

Note to Self:

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Dear Amy,

Not that it will ever be an issue again, however, you are no longer allowed to order Girl Scout cookies while you are pregnant.  It’s possible you may have lost perspective regarding exactly how many cookies one family needs.

Love,

Amy

February 28, 2011

Ch, ch, ch, ch, Changes

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So, as you can imagine, the monkey house has undergone tremendous change in the past week.

On Wednesday, we brought home the newest monkey (blog name to come), and we all needed to adapt to a new routine.

Real Man and I needed to adapt to a new sleep schedule.

Luckily, the baby is a fantastic night sleeper.

There was one night where he was up every few hours, and I was sure he was confusing night and day and was anticipating months of being up all night, however, it was a one-night event.

Now, he goes down around 9:00 pm, wakes up around 2:30, goes back down after eating and doesn’t wake again until 5:30ish.  He eats again and sleeps until 9:00 am.  Then, he’s up for the day, eating and taking smaller naps throughout the day.

The other monkeys have been fantastic with him.

They love to hold him and kiss him and talk sweetly and gently to him.

Monkey in the Middle has taken to the new baby the most.

As soon as he walks in the door, he does his homework and has a snack in record time so that he can hold the baby.

He wants to be there during diaper changes, handing us supplies.

If I realize I’ve left the burp cloth in another room, I don’t even have to ask or don’t even need to begin to rise to get it myself, he’s on the case.

He’s so sweet and gentle and kind with the baby.

It’s so interesting to watch, as Monkey in the Middle, much like me, is quick with his temper, and low with his tolerance for frustration.

So, I was concerned that a baby that took up a lot of time and attention would be something he would struggle with.

And, in fact, it’s been just the opposite.

In his role as second oldest of four, Monkey in the Middle has thrived.

This new baby could possibly have been the best thing to happen to him.

Baby Monkey is enjoying his role as big brother, for the first time.

He still goes about his business as usual, but he waits his turn to hold the baby, as well, and loves to give him kisses.

He talks to the baby in a sweet, little voice, and tells him that everything will be alright.

Monkey Girl continues to be the perfect big sister.

She loves to help care for the boys, and is just enjoying the new dynamic in the family.

She keeps referencing how we are now a family of 6, and just how cool that is.

As for Real Man and I, well, let’s just say it happened again.

We’ve always thought that our family of 5 was just perfect the way it was.

We’ve always known that our kids were wonderful and special.

We’ve always realized that we loved them more than we thought anyone could ever love their kids.

Our hearts were completely full.

And yet…

…at 8:19 am, last Sunday morning, it happened.

Our hearts, which we were sure were completely full, expanded again.

And now, we are just as head over heels in love with our new baby as we have always been with our other three children.

Because, apparently, when you have more than one child, your heart doesn’t divide, and you give little pieces to each one.

It grows larger and you wind up giving your whole heart to each one.

All four of my children are remarkable and wonderful and just the right children for me.

And I love each of them with my whole heart.

More than I could ever imagine.

February 26, 2011

One Single Moment

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The moment that sums up this amazing week.

February 25, 2011

Five Question Friday!!!

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1. Can you drive a stick shift?
I actually prefer it, however, they don’t make a lot of mini-vans in a stick.

2. What are two foods you just can’t eat?
Food allergies aside, I absolutely cannot eat liver or lamb.
When I was a kid, when my Dad would have to work late in the city, sometimes, my Mom’s best friend, Linda would come over.  I loved Linda, but dreaded those dinners, because it meant we were having liver and onions.  I told them EVERY SINGLE TIME it would make me throw up, but they made me try it every time, anyway.  And, every time, I puked.  Every single time.
Lamb just gives me the skivvies.
Maybe it’s because it is usually served with mint jelly.
Mint jelly?
No.

3. Do you buy Girl Scout Cookies? What is your favorite kind?
As if I could possibly stop myself.
I think my favorites are (in this order):
1.  Tagalongs  (Peanut butter and chocolate…need I say more?)
2.  Thin Mints  (Perfection)
3.  Samoas (Such an excellent texture)

4. How do you pamper yourself?
I really don’t.
I should, but seriously, working full-time and being a full-time Mom, who has the time?
Also…
I don’t do manis or pedis, don’t get invited on “Girl’s Night Out” outings, can’t seen spending the money on a massage, etc.
I guess it would be my bi-annual outings to the city with Kim, Erin and Michaela.
Love those.
So much.

5. What is your nickname and how did you get it?
My nickname is dependent upon who you are speaking to.
My Dad used to call me Beth, Bethy or Bethel, because Beth is my middle name.
Kim, Erin and Michaela call me Amer, which is an obvious derivative of Amy.
My work friends seem to call me Boz, which is an obvious derivative of my married last name, and a nickname that Dh (as well as his sister and brothers) have worn their entire lives.
I don’t have a nickname like “Scoop” or “Funky Pants,” but, that’s okay.
I’m good with Amy or Mama. 🙂

February 23, 2011

Monkey Girl Turns 10!!!

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I guess it’s only appropriate that, in a week full of posts about the birth of my last baby, I talk to you about the birth of my first baby.

Because, 10 years ago, today, Monkey Girl was born.

And my life was forever changed.

For the better.

So very much for the better.

I’m going to refer you to my post about her birthday last year because it has the best pictures of her as a little one, and explains how I felt about her birth.

But, I’m also going to tell you that I consider myself a very lucky woman.

This oldest child of mine is just…remarkable.

Her capacity to love is unreal.

Her concern and care for others, over the course of her 10 years, has always been inspiring.

Kids are supposed to be ego-centric.  It’s the way they are wired.

Not Monkey Girl.

She’s funny, she’s intelligent, she’s creative.

She’s everything I wish I could be.

I love this girl so much, I can’t even stand it sometimes.

And, I hope she always, always knows it.

So, celebrate my beautiful, oldest child with me, today.

She’s worth every second of celebration you can give her.

February 21, 2011

About A Boy

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We’re Gonna Need a Naming Contest!!!

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I am so proud to introduce our newest monkey! More info to come when I don’t have to type it on my phone! 🙂

We couldn’t be happier or more in love with this little guy!

February 18, 2011

Five Question Friday

Filed under: Five Question Friday — Amy @ 3:28 pm
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Not the most interesting set of question this week, but it’s what they had for me!
1. Have you worn the same outfit more than one day in a row?
Yes, yes I have.  Not to work, but on weekends or over the summer, I certainly have.
And, I’m not ashamed to say it.

2. If you had to choose any LARGE city to live in, which would it be?
New York City.
I love that place.

3. Fly or drive with the kids on vacation?
Hard to pick, as I’ve never flown with the kids, anywhere. 

4. What is your idea of “spring cleaning”?
Opening the windows, vacuuming, dusting, sweeping, and just starting over.

5. What is the best book you have ever read?
Um, seriously?
Perhaps I haven’t been clear about exactly how many books I’ve read over the course of my life.
I have no idea.
I’ve loved many of them in their own way.
However, books that have stayed with me are The Thirteenth Tale, Mystic River, and The Pillars of the Earth.
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